Exploring ways to bring that sexy feeling back, not only for us, but for our partners as well. Last week I started the alphabet with A to F, today I’m going to continue it and hopefully find more ways you can use to bring the sexy back. As mentioned last week, please practice these suggestions safely and with a consenting adult.
G is for Going Away – Nothing can refresh you more than taking a vacation. If that isn’t possible for any reason (work, kids, pandemic, funds) you can still take advantage of a road trip with your significant other. Find a small hotel that you can hide in for the weekend, or even try camping in the great wide world. Find the time to reconnect on multiple levels.
H is for High Heels – Come on ladies, let’s be honest. We don’t wear them for us. We don’t wear them for their comfort. We wear them for the men (or women) in our lives. They can be a great tool for feeling sexy and confident. And men seem to appreciate a sexy pair of heels when there are silky stockings involved.
I is for Images – Being visual people, we all like to see appealing photographs and images. Why not be a little indecent and take some sexy pictures to share with your partner? Boudoir photography, sexy selfies, or even a picture of some sexy lingerie that you plan to wear? It all can make you feel confident and encourage you to be sexy.
J is for Just The Tip – I think this one is pretty understandable, but instead of having full sexual intercourse tease your partner and yourself by only going so far. This can build up your sexiness, in my opinion, by driving yourself and your partner wild. Soon you may find that the flirting and the touches may make you crave them so much that you will be empowered in your sexiness. Go get them ladies!
K is for Kissing – I love to kiss my husband. I love a good old fashioned make out session, where he wants to do more, but we stay kissing building that desire and it makes me feel like the sexiest woman in the world. Kissing doesn’t have to be all tongues, it could be a simple sweet kiss good bye, it could be a passionate kiss when you missed someone. Kissing is a strong action, and one that can make you feel on top of the sexy world you live in.
L is for Licking your Libido – We all have times were we feel disinterested in anything sexy. And that is okay. However if that happens more often than not, first talk with your doctor; secondly you can do many things to help build that sexy feeling. A hot bubble bath, a glass of wine, some candles, or even foreplay. There are so many erogenous zones on a human body and some may be the same for each person, but some may be unique only to you, let your partner know where you want them to lick, nibble, kiss, or caress and let your libido move you to that confident sexy zone where you can be free to enjoy the sensations.
M is for Masturbation – Let’s not pretend. We have all explored our own bodies. It’s healthy, natural, and a great way to know what you like, what you don’t like and what you may want your partner to do. Masturbation doesn’t have to be alone, mutual masturbation with your partner can be very erotic and sexy. Why wouldn’t watching your partner who is watching you, turn you on and build that sexy feeling knowing what your body does for them? Try it and see if it’s something that works for you.
As always, be safe and trust your partner if you are doing anything with them. If it doesn’t feel right, say so, and stop. All sexual activity mentioned above should be with consenting adults and done safely.
I hope you find more sexiness in your life by practicing your ABC’s, and if you find new ideas, don’t hesitate to share them in the comments.
Be strong, be beautiful, be you